The Ileya festival in Ede, during the 60s, was an unforgettable experience for me as a little boy attending elementary school. I’d spend holidays in Ede, my mother’s hometown, where her family, the Laoyes, were renowned for their rich cultural heritage. My mother, Princess Limota Jadesola Fagbola, née Laoye, came from a lineage that traced back to Timi Arohanran, a descendant of the first Timi of Ede and founder of the town, Timi Lalemo.
A Royal Connection
Music flowed through me from my maternal background, particularly drumming, which the royal family of Oba Toyese Laoye was known for. I’d accompany my maternal grandfather to the palace, where I’d witness the king communicate with his traditional talking drum, amazing tourists and expatriates.
As I reflect on these memories, I’m reminded of the importance of honouring our heritage and showing compassion to others.
Ileya Celebrations
On Ileya day, our compound, “Ile Agunyan-masesu,” would host numerous rams being slaughtered. Baba Molaoye, my great-grandfather, would ride in the king’s luxurious car, a symbol of honour and respect. The car would be positioned at our compound, and he’d be escorted to the Yidi prayer ground with royal pomp and pageantry.
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A Kingdom of Heaven Attitude
What strikes me is the contrast between our traditional values and today’s practices during religious festivals. Instead of honouring fallen heroes of faith, we seem to prioritize commercial gain. Prices skyrocket, and commoners struggle. I recall Ogbeni Rauf Aregbesola’s initiative to provide free train rides during festivals, showing genuine care for the populace.
Reflections
As I reflect on these memories, I’m reminded of the importance of honouring our heritage and showing compassion to others. The Agunyan-masesu tradition of generosity and community spirit is worth emulating.
Just thinking aloud.
